Option one…Schedule an immersion series for your partnership and get a romantic vacation within your private couple’s sessions with Jaime.


If you are wanting to dive deeply as a couple in a short amount of time, consider scheduling an immersion series held in a beautiful cottage in Nevada City, CA. Your Sex and Relationship sessions will be crafted over your three day stay to include ten hours of focussed, playful, experiential work with Jaime, Certified Sex and Relationship Coach. Doing this work in the unique setting of a beautiful cottage called the Shala, will give you the opportunity to not only revive through rest in a nourishing environment, but to heighten your exploration of your inner territory as well.

Some of the possibilities of focus:

• Learn how to be more attuned to your partners needs and clarify your own

• Understand the benefit of conscious repair conversations, sometimes even a form of foreplay

• Cultivate a deeper understanding of what turns you on and how to connect around differing desires

• Heighten your connection to your own desire and communicating what you want and don’t want

• Expand the menu of romantic, passionate, sensual possibilities in your relationship

• Enhance your ability to stay connected with your no and yes in intimacy

• Navigate the territory of expressing feelings more fully with one another

• Undermine patterns that have not been in service of your relationship

• Learn new ways to create balance in individuating and connection in the midst of triggers

Located seven miles between Nevada City and Grass Valley, your stay in the Shala nestled on the ten acre property with blue and black oak trees and enchanted manzanita outcroppings is a great backdrop for the immersion work you’ll be doing. Light cascades through the diversely shaped windows on each side of the cottage. In the winter the heat source is a propane fueled wood stove and in the summer you’ll get to bask in the sun and leave time for stargazing and resting into the rhythm of the natural world. The cottage has a romantic bedroom nook, a cozy kitchen with a vintage Wedgewood stove, a small fridge and freezer, and all of the cutlery and plates and bowls needed to create nourishing and romantic meals. The shower in the bathroom is accented with manzanita above you and stone beneath you, bringing the beauty of your surroundings inside as well. The Yuba River is an easy drive away as are many other adventures accessible by car. And if you are wanting to add to your time of health and wellness, Jaime has gathered a list of local healing arts practitioners and culinary geniuses. Whether you’d like to book a massage, have a Turkish meal delivered to your door, receive a private session from a skilled yoga practitioner or learn the art of fusion dancing, Jaime can help you craft a dynamic experience.

Begin the process by going the book now and Jaime will set up your complimentary fifteen minute consultation to understand the direction you’d like to go in support of having the kind of intimacy and relationship you desire. Please leave Jaime 2 to 3 dates that you would prefer for your two day stay in the message portion of the form.

Time commitment: Ten focussed hours with Jaime over a three days, beginning a late afternoon of the first day and ending mid day on the third day.

Cost: $1,200.00 for the immersion work and $300.00 for the stay in the Shala. All work will be done on sight.


Option two…Join Jaime in Nevada City, CA for three days of immersion through the Intimacy Boot(y) Camp with a group of ten to sixteen other individuals desiring to explore this work in community.

Whether you are in a partnership or not, this Intimacy Boot(y) Camp is for you. As with option one, you will have many opportunities orchestrate your specific focal point for your experience in the context of the group dynamic. We will also be looking at how to become more of an ally in relationships out in the world and how to notice in relationship to others what may be in the way of authentic closeness for you. If you are coming with your partner, you will have every opportunity to explore all of the material with your partner in the midst of the group setting. Equally dynamic, will be creating connection if you are not in partnership to experience doing this work for yourself, wherever it might lead you. Within the framework of our group sessions, you will

  • Enhance your ability to spot where shame may be limiting your full self-expression.

  • Incorporate breathing practices that bring a deeper awareness about how to fully live in your body and your sensuality.

  • Explore the role that fantasy plays in sensuality and identify your core erotic theme to enhance your pleasure and potentially heal old wounds.

  • Identify how to recognize more clearly your boundaries and express them.

  • Become more playful and flirtatious in the bedroom and in life.

  • Cultivate the confidence to ask for what you want, not just in the bedroom, but also in life.

  • Expand the menu of what compels you sexually.

  • Learn exercises that build your vocabulary with eroticism not just through words, but also through action and confidence.

  • Choose to be bold about collaborating on the direction you’d like your relationships to go, enhancing not just your sex life and intimacy but also your experience of yourself as a sexual being.

  • Explore what works and doesn’t work for you in terms of touch and how to express it.

Time Commitment: The next Nevada City Intimacy Boot(y) Camp will be held August 9th, 10th and 11th with registration beginning at 3:00.

Cost: The cost of the immersion is $450.00 a person which includes ten hours of group session time spread throughout the 9th, 10th and 11th. You will have ample time for meals, rest, play and self-care all located only 15 minutes from the group immersion retreat. Meals and lodging are not included in the cost of the immersion. There are some spectacular places to stay in the Nevada City area, from camping to luxury dwellings. Craft your adventure.


Option three…Bring the work to your own town. Reach Jaime’s way and we can dream up options.

This Intimacy Boot(y) camp will look much like option two but in your geographical territory, your community. Whether you are in a partnership or not, this Intimacy Boot(y) Camp is for you. As with option one, you will have many opportunities orchestrate your specific focal point for your experience in the context of the group dynamic. We will also be looking at how to become more of an ally in relationships out in the world and how to notice in relationship to others what may be in the way of authentic closeness for you. If you are coming with your partner, you will have every opportunity to explore all of the material with your partner in the midst of the group setting. Equally dynamic, will be creating connection if you are not in partnership to experience doing this work for yourself, wherever it might lead you. Within the framework of our group sessions, you will

  • Enhance your ability to spot where shame may be limiting your full self-expression.

  • Incorporate breathing practices that bring a deeper awareness about how to fully live in your body and your sensuality.

  • Explore the role that fantasy plays in sensuality and identify your core erotic theme to enhance your pleasure and potentially heal old wounds.

  • Identify how to recognize more clearly your boundaries and express them.

  • Become more playful and flirtatious in the bedroom and in life.

  • Cultivate the confidence to ask for what you want, not just in the bedroom, but also in life.

  • Expand the menu of what compels you sexually.

  • Learn exercises that build your vocabulary with eroticism not just through words, but also through action and confidence.

  • Choose to be bold about collaborating on the direction you’d like your relationships to go, enhancing not just your sex life and intimacy but also your experience of yourself as a sexual being.

  • Explore what works and doesn’t work for you in terms of touch and how to express it.

Time commitment: To be determined

Cost: Cost will vary depending travel and retreat location.